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PSA: Most Moms Are Butt Clenchers and It's Making Us Look 10 Years Older

A physical therapist explains how to fix your pelvic floor

butt-clenching: An artistic, glitchy photo of a woman standing in work out clothes. It's a close up of her backside. She stands with hands on hips. There are two other black and white cut outs of the same woman to create an echo effect in the photo.
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So you’ve had a kid, or several, and now you are acutely aware that your posture, your abs and, well, pretty much everything from the neck down looks and feels a little different than it used to. Maybe you have other symptoms of pelvic floor weakness, too. (Raise your hand if you can dislodge a tampon with a sneeze!) Whatever the case may be, it’s a fact that most women's bodies don’t get the attention they need in order for their bodies to recover properly after pregnancy and birth.

If you’re nodding your head in agreement, you might be interested in learning a little more about butt clenching—an unfortunate but very widespread phenomenon among women whose pelvic floors have been to hell and back. I spoke to a pelvic floor specialist and physical therapist to learn more about the dysfunctional posture that so many of us are walking around with, and what we can do to fix it. Read on for the full scoop.

Meet the Expert

Luci Calvi, PT, DPT, is a physical therapist specializing in pelvic floor therapy at Spear Center in Brooklyn, New York. She earned her Doctor of Physical Therapy degree from Franklin Pierce University after graduating summa cum laude with her bachelor's degree in Exercise Science. A former ballet dancer, Luci incorporates her passion for movement into a patient-centered, accessible approach to healthcare.

butt-clenching: A photo of a pregnant woman doing pelvic floor exercises with a medical professional in a living room.
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What Is Butt Clenching?

The first thing to know about butt clenching is that it’s a type of poor posture that women are prone to adopting postpartum due to weakened pelvic floor muscles, as well as repetitive movements (like rocking a baby) that reinforce this dysfunctional standing position.

“The butt clenching phenomenon is something I see a lot in both the pregnant and postpartum population—and the pattern often starts because as the pregnant belly grows, the added weight wants to drag you forward, so the rest of your body above and below your stomach has to compensate in order to maintain an upright posture,” explains Calvi. The end result is what Calvi describes as a “swayback posture.”

In terms of the specifics, the expert tells me that butt clenching happens when the back is arched, the shoulders slightly rounded, the pelvis thrust forward and, consequently, the glutes are squeezed. The end result is a hunched-over body posture that accentuates your abdomen in a not-so-flattering way and can make you look older than you really are. This poor alignment also further weakens your core and pelvic floor muscles, both of which are stretched out and strained during pregnancy.

How Can You Fix It?

Once established, the butt clenching habit is hard to break, which is why Calvi recommends seeing a pelvic floor therapist who can assess the exact nature of your muscle imbalances and assign you exercises that will correct the problem. That said, there are some things you can do at home (and some workouts you might want to avoid unless you have the guidance of a professional).

For context, I shared with Calvi that my pelvic floor (the group of muscles that give you proper control over your bladder and bowels, but also help support the organs above) has been weak ever since I had my second child and that I had tried to fix it with ab exercises to no avail—and it turns out my approach wasn’t the best. “If your pelvic floor is weak in the first place, and then you’re gripping these abs, shooting all that pressure downward towards the pelvic floor, you can further weaken the pelvic floor,” Calvi explains. Oops.

What about Kegels? “Kegels have their role if we’re working on coordination and isolation of those muscles, but in my daily practice, I really utilize hip strengthening, glute strengthening and core strengthening to influence the pelvic floor,” says Calvi, adding that “some people don't need Kegels, since they can actually worsen symptoms for those who have pelvic floor tightness.”

For these reasons, a formal assessment—including an internal exam—is the best way to find an exercise regimen that’s tailored to your body’s needs. That said, it’s never too late to start paying attention to your pelvic floor; whether you’re 10 months or 10 years postpartum, if you put in the hard work, the expert tells me that real physiological change and a noticeable improvement in symptoms can be achieved after four to six weeks of consistent exercise. With that in mind, here are three exercises you can try on your own at home.

1. Try Dead Bug Exercises

Yes, you read that right. One of the best things you can do to strengthen your pelvic floor and improve your posture is to lie on your back with your legs in the air, hip-length apart, and bent at a 90 degree angle as if you were a cockroach who met its maker…or a woman sitting in a toppled over chair. You can simply hold this position until you start to feel your pelvic floor muscles working, or you can enhance the exercise by straightening one leg at a time, as seen in the video above.

2. Do Planks

Planks, when done properly, are a great way to strengthen your abs and your pelvic floor at the same time, says Calvi. That’s because they target the whole core and encourage you to keep your pelvis in proper alignment. (Just remember not to hold your breath when you do them, the expert cautions!)

3. Stretch the Front of the Hips

“In order to maintain a neutral pelvis, it is important to address the muscles on the front of the pelvis as well,” says Calvi, adding that “tight hip flexors are commonly seen with butt clenching posture because of the uneven pull coming from the glutes.” As such, the expert recommends stretching the hip flexors with a kneeling stretch as a great way to offset the tucking of the pelvis. 

One More Thing…

Finally, and this is particularly important for those who are still committed to doing upper abdominal workouts such as leg lifts and the like, Calvi tells me that it is helpful to roll a towel up and place it underneath the sacrum area so that your butt is slightly lifted and your back less arched. “This sets the pelvis into a better alignment and makes it a little easier to activate those abs without putting them in a really lengthened out position,” she says. In other words, this simple prop will set you up for success and help you practice strengthening exercises within that proper range that you otherwise might not be able to find on your own.



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